Sudden death sometimes is chosen, which makes it even for the ones close that are involved.
That’s why the below MCH2022 lecture by father and son Jilles and Jurre Groenendijk two years ago is really important.
I was reminded about it by a [Wayback/Archive] Thread by @jilles_com on Thread Reader App last week, but before that a big TRIGGER WARNING from the lecture:
The Wiert Corner - irregular stream of stuff 